And thrived! Sex addiction and porn addiction almost tore my family apart. My best friend and husband fell down hard and I picked him up! I saved my marriage, my family, and you can too. This blog was my journey to build intimacy and love and how I now help others do the same.
It is so tempting to stand on the rooftop and scream "My husband is a Sex Addict everyone! He cheated, he lied, he ignored ... but please don't judge us, we are doing the best we can!"
The reality is we don't and certainly can't do that. Society for the most part judges our spouses for being douche bags and judges us for staying with such assholes. We are forced to put on happy faces and pretend like everything is normal ....
It is so hard pretending that your life is "normal", that your life isn't about to implode any second, especially in public. That is a really challenging part of navigating on this path of recovery. If you are getting divorced than maybe it is something you can tell, but not this .... definitely not this!